Marriage Equality--Our Position

With one vote hanging in the balance, I contacted NY State Senator Andrew Lanza this morning, urging him to vote for Marriage Equality. I hope you will urge your own legislators to pass bills in every state to make Marriage Equality the law in all 50 states. Now, why is this so important to a straight woman? Because it is a matter of compassion and justice. As a minister, I am compelled to support it. As a human being, I am compelled to support it. We, as a society, need to uphold equality and justice for all. We should encourage consulting adults, no matter what their gender, to form committed, enduring relationships that are recognized as legal marriages with all rights under the law. Civil unions still fall short of extending all rights. Rev. Peluso and Art of the Ceremony will happily create and perform LGBT marriages in New York or any other state. Until Marriage Equality is the law of the land, Rev. Peluso and Art of the Ceremony will be honored to create and perform commitment celebration ceremonies.

When the Standard Musical Ensemble Won't Do!

Couples often ask me for referrals for musicians. A few months ago I had the delightful experience to see two members of Tenet perform at my seminary. These singers and instrumentalists specialize in medieval and renaissance music, but their versatility goes far beyond those forms. So, if you're looking for something truly unique for your wedding ceremony, watch their videos on their website. http://www.tenetnyc.com/web/home.aspx

Brides of Winter...strapless!

Scientists should study brides. Why? Because they seem able to endure sub-freezing temperatures without popping a goosebump. I've seen it so many times. Perhaps it's adrenaline. The brides are able to stand uncovered for the length of the ceremony plus photographs. I recommend having a standby wrap, though. Here's a recent bride from England, totally unphased by the snow and low temperatures (in the low 20's F.) The lake in Central Park--frozen!

This British couple's wedding was delayed due to a snow storm that grounded flights from London. Lucky for my couple, my contracts contain an "acts of nature" clause. So, no extra fees, despite a rescheduled ceremony.

iPad Wedding at the W Hotel, NYC

Photographer Max Flatow (www.maxflatow.com) snapped this stunning shot of the entire wedding party blessing the rings. We never knew he was there! His stealth technique sure impressed me. Beautiful bride, handsome groom... and my iPad... again. The iPad has become this minister's constant companion. (I use the iPad when I lead worship services too at The Interfaith Temple.)

To find out when Rev. R. M. Peluso is preaching at The Interfaith Temple, follow IFT on Twitter @ interfaithnyc. Or follow Rev. R. M. @ weddingrevnyc

From the UK to the Conservatory Gardens, Central Park,

Ah! A fountain full of lotus, a minister holding an iPad, a late summer wedding in a city that loves lovers. This couple from the England knew that New York was the capital of romance! While they chose the Conservatory Gardens, there are many other sites all over Central Park--some pictured on this blog, that make for unforgetable nuptual locations. And--best kept secret-- most are free!

photo by Ande Whyland @www.newyorkphoto.nu

A Very Special Review

Dear Rev. Peluso,
We don't even know where to begin thanking you. I had a very specific vision of what I wanted our ceremony to look like, and you took that vision and created something so unique that I couldn't have even dreamed of it. You totally "got us" when you talked about our relationship and partnership with one another. You were able to incorporate our families in a way I've never seen before, and our parents were so touched by the pink rose gifting. You have been a pleasure to work with throughout this process--always making yourself available with an open heart, and, even more, open ears. We really appreciate all the thought you put into a day that we will remember the rest of our lives.
All our best,
Gloria & Ivan


This thank you note so touched my heart that--with permission-- I had to post it here.
Other testimonials can be read on my website: www.artoftheceremony.com and wedding sites, such as OneWed.com.

Elegant Wedding at the Hudson Hotel, NYC

Photos from earlier this spring/summer season are still coming in (they can take months!) Rev. Peluso married this handsome couple under a tent on the roof of the chic & trendy Hudson Hotel. Roof overlooked the Hudson and skyline and roof garden hosted their reception. After feasting your eyes on this couple, look at those florals. Ceremony and decor, simple yet elegant.